
I usually bring these topics back to my own experience, but today, I want to talk about a developer I work with. No names, of course.
Every time this person answers a question, they go on and on⦠and on. After three minutes of talking, they finally stopāexpecting the team to have followed everything. But by then, most of us donāt even remember the original question!
Thatās when I find myself jumping in with, āSo bottom line, you meanā¦ā Or someone else has to ask, āWait, what are you trying to say?ā The long explanation ends up confusing the room instead of clarifying.
Learning how to get to the point quicklyāand in a way people can followāis a communication skill that takes time and intention. Itās even harder when English isnāt your first language, like in my case.
But the good news? You can get better. Iām still improving myself, and Iām old, as per my daughters š¤Ø.
Letās talk about how.
Enjoy,
ā Aderson
Ever answer a question, talk for two minutes straight, and still get asked, āSo⦠whatās your point?ā
If youāve ever seen someoneās eyes glaze over mid-sentence, youāre not alone. Rambling is a common trapāespecially for tech professionals who are trying to explain something complex and feel the need to give all the context. But guess what? You donāt need to!
Thereās a simple shift that can help: Start with the Bottom Line. Thatās the essence of the BLUF methodāBottom Line Up Front.
When you lead with your main point, you show clarity, confidence, and respect for peopleās time. Want to be seen as clear, concise, and credible? Start here.
š Why You Ramble (And Why Itās Okay)
Letās be real. Rambling often comes from a good place:
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You want to be thorough.
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Youāre trying to be helpful.
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You think the context is critical to understand your point.
But hereās the thing: most people donāt need the full story before they hear your point. They need your point first so they can decide if they care about the rest.
Enter: BLUF.
š§± What Youāll Learn Today
š¹ Lead with the conclusion
š¹ Give context only if needed
š¹ Practice your BLUF muscle
š¹ Lead with the conclusion
Start with your answerānot your thought process.
If your manager says, āHowās the project going?ā, donāt start with, āWell, last week we were testing the integrationā¦ā
Instead: āThe project is on track. Testingās complete and weāre moving to deployment tomorrow.ā
This helps your listener understand the status immediatelyāand then, if they want, theyāll ask for details. Itās more engaging, not less.
BLUF is especially powerful in meetings, emails, Slack messages, and stand-ups. It respects peopleās time and positions you as someone who can get to the pointāa major plus in busy workplaces.
š¹ Give context only if needed
Once youāve said the bottom line, then decide if context is useful.
Bad habit:
āWe spent 3 days debugging an API call, realized it was a version mismatch, fixed it, tested again, and now itās working.ā
Better:
āThe issue is resolvedāwe identified the root cause and validated the fix.ā
Let people pull more info from you, instead of pushing everything at once. Think of it like a sandwich: conclusion first, then the meat, if needed.
š¹ Practice your BLUF muscle
This takes effort at firstābut it gets easier fast.
Start practicing in:
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Emails: Open with your ask or decision.
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Stand-ups: āYesterday I did X, today Iāll do Y, blocker is Z.ā
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Meetings: Start your answer with the outcome, then explain if needed.
Youāll be shocked how people start listening more closely. Youāll sound more thoughtfulāeven if youāre actually saying less.
And hereās a bonus: people start seeing you as someone who is confident and trustworthyābecause confident people donāt feel the need to explain themselves right away. They say what matters, then expand.
Final Thoughts
Clarity is a skillāand BLUF is a shortcut to it. Rambling might feel safer, but leading with the bottom line builds trust faster. Speak with impact, and let your details follow, not lead.
āThe most valuable of all talents is that of never using two words when one will do.ā ā Thomas Jefferson
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š§± Stop Sabotaging Yourself: Spot the Weak Language Hiding in Your Voice